If you’ve lived in Massachusetts for any length of time, you might have noticed something a little unusual — people stare. A lot. Whether you’re walking down the street, waiting in line, or just minding your own business, it can sometimes feel like all eyes are on you. And yes, it can be pretty annoying.

So why does this happen?

Massachusetts is a place full of diverse cultures, strong opinions, and sometimes, curiosity that borders on intense. People here tend to size each other up — not always in a rude way, but out of habit or maybe just trying to figure out who you are, where you’re from, or what you’re about. Sometimes it comes from stereotypes, assumptions, or simply a desire to understand what’s different or unfamiliar.

This kind of attention can make you feel self-conscious, frustrated, or even angry. You might want to snap back or react. But here’s the important thing to remember: the way people perceive you has nothing to do with your true self. Their opinions, judgments, or assumptions don’t define you.

People often stare because they’re trying to figure you out, but they never really will — and that’s okay. The best way to deal with this is to not let it phase you. Stay confident in who you are, keep your head high, and know that their stares are a reflection of their curiosity or insecurities — not your worth.

Over time, you’ll learn to brush off the unwanted attention and focus on what matters: your own peace of mind and self-respect. After all, your identity isn’t up for debate, no matter how many eyes are on you.