How the hell do you call yourself a man, claim you want a relationship, and then turn around and act like the most unreliable, selfish, and immature partner possible? If you can’t show up, put in effort, or stay loyal, you don’t deserve a woman in your life—period.

Too many men want the perks of a relationship without the responsibility. They want a woman to be loyal, nurturing, and supportive, but they refuse to do the bare minimum in return. They disappear when she needs them, act like basic communication is a chore, and then have the audacity to cause problems like they’re the victim. And let’s not even get started on the ones who run around talking to other women behind their partner’s back like it’s a sport.

If you can’t stay faithful, then stop wasting her time. If you’re too emotionally stunted to communicate, then stay single. If you’re always creating drama instead of fixing it, then don’t expect a good woman to stick around. Relationships require effort, consistency, and maturity—not just empty words and half-assed apologies when you get caught screwing up.

At the end of the day, a real man doesn’t treat his relationship like an option. He doesn’t look for attention elsewhere, he doesn’t leave his partner feeling alone while he’s physically present, and he doesn’t destroy something good because he’s too selfish to put in the work. If that’s too much to handle, do the world a favor and stay single until you grow the hell up.