Let’s be real—too many men are out here losing themselves over women who don’t deserve a second of their time. Chasing after validation, simping for attention, and putting women on pedestals as if they’re gods instead of flawed human beings. It’s pathetic, and it needs to stop.

Men are out here grinding, building, and working toward something bigger, yet they throw it all away for a woman who contributes nothing but an inflated ego and a list of demands. These same women sit back, do the bare minimum, and expect to be treated like royalty while offering nothing of value in return. And worse? Some men are so blinded by lust and desperation that they let these women walk all over them.

It’s time to humanize women—see them for who they really are, not as untouchable prizes or validation machines. Stop acting like their attention defines your worth. Respect them, sure—but respect yourself first. Stop giving your energy to people who haven’t earned it, who don’t match your drive, your ambition, or your purpose. If she’s got nothing going for her besides her looks and an attitude, she’s a liability, not an asset.

Men need to start valuing themselves more. You’ve worked too hard to be controlled by someone whose only skill is taking pictures for social media and acting entitled. Focus on your goals, your mission, and your purpose. A strong woman will add to your life, not drain you. If she doesn’t bring anything to the table, stop serving her a feast.